Whenever we get too comfortable, (or lazy or not paying attention), life changes to push us to do something more; to do something different; to do something meaningful; to revisit our vision /road map/ goals. It’s hard to understand right away, why things are changing without our permission. We feel the world is against us.
If we could only for a moment see that this was to get us ready for the next BIG, exciting chapter of our lives, then maybe we could behave in a proactive way and not indulge in non-productive behaviors.
If only we can see at that moment, that someone believes in us in a bigger way than we do in ourselves, then maybe transitions will be less stressful and less painful. We may look forward to change.
What to do:
-pay attention; set new goals; revisit old goals; do something different everyday; be grateful everyday; explore new and different things; believe that we deserve better, trust that things are easy and seamless, write a mission/vision statement, journal each day, ……….the best is yet to come.